If you’re looking to have some side piece sex, then a mistress is what you need. Finding a mistress isn’t the hardest part actually. It’s keeping her that seems to be most difficult for many men. This update should help you better understand everything you need to know about finding a hot mistress and keeping her for good. Trust me, I’ve been around the block and know what I’m talking about here.
How To Get A Mistress and Keep Her
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It’s important to understand that this is in no way an excuse for any man to cheat on the woman that he’s with. It doesn’t matter if you’re dating someone or married to them.
This isn’t a guide to cheating on her. What it will work as is a way to theoretically get and keep a mistress. It’s the best way to go about it if you’ve already decided to step out on your partner. It’s not an excuse to do so.
If you want to cheat on your partner, then that’s on you. It’s something you shouldn’t do, but it certainly happens. If you’ve already made the decision to do it then this is the best way for you to go about it. There are a lot of misconceptions about what a mistress actually is. If you don’t already know then you’re in for a surprise at what it all actually entails.
This isn’t a girlfriend that you can have in addition to the one that you already do. You’re also going to be limited to the kind of women that you can get as a mistress. Here’s how you can go about getting one for yourself.
The Reasons For A Mistress
There are a lot of different reasons for a man to seek out a mistress. It can be as simple as wanting to have sex with someone he’s not dating or married to. It’s a natural desire for men to have. We’re all biologically wired to want to have sex with as many different women as we possibly can. It’s what helped our species to thrive and dominate the planet.
Then there are men who just can’t seem to have sex with their partners. This is something that happens all too often. Women just decide that they’re tired of having sex and cut them off. If there’s one good reason for seeking out a mistress then this one is it.
Finally, the man could simply be looking for a specific kind of sex that he can’t have with his partner. It doesn’t have to be anything too crazy. It could just be a matter of his wife or girlfriend refusing to give him oral sex to completion.
It’s something he craves but can’t get at home. That’s when he starts looking for someone outside of his house to give it to him and he often succeeds.
Finding A Mistress
If you want to get a mistress then the first thing you have to do is find a woman who’s likely to become one. That means that you have to look in the right places. It’s not as easy as it seems.
There’s a very specific type of woman who’s ready to be the other woman in your life and she’s probably going to be in her 20s. She’s also going to be a professional and she’s going to be into older men. The men her age are going to seem immature to her.
She has a career and she doesn’t want to get tied down to anyone at that point in her life. That’s exactly the kind of woman that you should be looking for. If you can treat them as your equal and make it clear that you don’t want to marry them, then you’re going to have a girl who can look at you as someone that she wants to spend her time with.
Check out the local dive bar scene and see what kind of girls are there. If they’re young and looking for someone to talk to then you might just be able to get your mistress there.
How To Reel Her In
Once you find her, all you have to do is make her your mistress. This is going to take a little bit of work. You have to remember that you’re engaging her as a mistress and not a one-night stand. That means that you have to prove your intelligence to her. Any stupid person can decide to cheat on his wife or his girlfriend.
The trick here is letting her know that you’re not just following your libido. You’re an intelligent person and you just so happen to be above all of that relationship business. It’s an antiquated concept and you’re too smart to fall for it. That’s why you’re interested in seeking out a mistress.
After that, you want to make your intentions clear. Don’t let her imagine a future for the two of you. That’s never going to happen. Be upfront about what you’re looking for and she’ll have to decide whether or not to be a part of it. If she wants to walk away then let her.
If she wants to be the other woman in your life then you’re ready to start in on your new existence as a philanderer.
Keep Your Mistress
Once you get a mistress, you have to work to keep her. The one thing you can’t do in this relationship is to expect her to be faithful to you. Just think about what you’re doing. You’re cheating on your significant other with her. If she wants to have sex with another guy then that’s her decision.
You also have to realize that you’re not going to be able to have sex with her whenever you want to. You’ll only be able to do it every few months or so. It will be every few weeks if you’re extremely lucky. That means you have to realize that she’s going to need to find an outlet for when you’re not around. Other than that, you just have to show her a good time.
Make her happy for any of the time that she gets to spend with you. She’s not just there to make you happy. You have to make her just as happy as she’s making you. If you can manage to make it all happen then you’ll end up with a mistress on the side whenever you need to have a good time.